Four Gifts of Love® — Online Institute

1.)

According to Dr. Harley, Care means ___________.

a.) being your spouse’s primary human source of happiness

b.) meeting your spouse’s most important emotional needs

c.) doing for your spouse what is meaningful to YOU

d.) a willingness to take the time and make an effort to be a source of happiness

e.) a, b, and d

2.)

An emotional need is a craving that, when satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of _____________.

a.) being in love

b.) wanting more

c.) happiness and contentment

d.) unhappiness and frustration

3.)

An emotional need is a craving that, when unsatisfied, leaves you with a feeling of _____________.

a.) indifference

b.) unhappiness and frustration

c.) happiness and contentment

d.) hatred

4.)

All emotional needs, when met, make the same amount of Love Bank deposits.

a.) true

b.) false

5.)

When the most important emotional needs are met, the largest Love Bank deposits are made.

a.) true

b.) false

6.)

Most spouse's think they are valiantly trying to meet the other's needs, but they are often aiming at the wrong target.

a.) true

b.) false

7.)

Dr. Harley believes that all men have the same 5 most important emotional needs.

a.) true

b.) false

8.)

Dr. Harley believes that, on average, men identify sexual fulfillment, recreational companionship, physical attractiveness, domestic support, and admiration as their 5 most important emotional needs in marriage.

a.) true

b.) false

9.)

Dr. Harley’s list of the 5 most important emotional needs for women and men came from _____________.

a.) his own stereotypes of women and men

b.) what most men and women believe them to be

c.) what the majority of women and men he counseled said were their most important emotional needs

d.) reports from various marriage and family researchers

10.)

Dr. Harley believes that all women have the same 5 most important emotional needs.

a.) true

b.) false

11.)

Dr. Harley believes that, on average, women identify affection, conversation, honesty & openness, financial support, and admiration as their 5 most important emotional needs in marriage.

a.) true

b.) false