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Want to rekindle your love?

A breakthrough approach, rooted in decades of research and real-life success stories, the Four Gifts of Love® offers a powerful framework for revitalizing your marriage and deepening your relationship with God. By practicing the four gifts of Care, Protection, Honesty, and Time, you will embark on a journey that nourishes both your marital and spiritual life. The Four Gifts of Love® class can help.

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Do you feel disconnected from your spouse?

You're not alone. Countless couples experience difficulties in communication, emotional connection, and intimacy, leaving them feeling frustrated and isolated. If these problems remain unresolved, they can drive a wedge between you, your partner, and your spiritual life. But there is a way to turn things around. Our Coaching Center can help you change the course of your marriage.

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Embrace the Four Gifts of Love® and Transform Your Marriage and Relationship with God

Gift of Care

A willingness and effort to be a primary source of happiness.

Nurture your marriage by willingly being a source of happiness to your partner by meeting the most important emotional needs, and following God's instruction to care for one another as we care for ourselves.

Gift of Protection

A willingness and effort to avoid being a source of unhappiness.

Shield your relationship from harm by avoiding behaviors that cause unhappiness, eliminating Love Busters, protecting each other from your own selfishness, and finding mutually acceptable solutions, as God instructed us to do to others as we would want done to ourselves.

Gift of Honesty

A willingness and effort to make everything about you transparent.

Foster trust and transparency in your marriage by being open about your past, present, and future, and regularly communicating to God.

Gift of Time

A willingness and effort to give undivided attention.

Cultivate emotional intimacy by giving undivided attention to provide meaningful care, which is essential for effectively giving and receiving the other gifts of love. Schedule time for meeting intimate emotional needs in your marriage and spend time developing your relationship with God.

The Experts Behind The Four Gifts of Love®

More than 55 years of combined experience that has helped millions of marriages improve through books, interviews, and counseling.

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See what real couples have to say about The Four Gifts of Love®

A Letter from the Founder

Dear Friend,
 

If you feel something just isn't what it could be or feel disconnected to your spouse, you're not alone.

Countless couples experience difficulties in communication, emotional connection, and intimacy, leaving them feeling frustrated and isolated. If these problems remain unresolved, they can drive a wedge between you, your partner, and your spiritual life. But there is a way to turn things around. Let our proven and life-changing foundation help you change the course of your marriage.

This site is packed with opportunities intended to help guide you. But it is our ultimate hope that you and your spouse will take the Four Gifts of Love® Class; it provides practical and concrete ways to create an exceptionally caring lifestyle with your spouse and God. It's a breakthrough approach, rooted in decades of research and real-life success stories.

By practicing the four gifts of Care, Protection, Honesty, and Time, you will embark on a journey that nourishes both your marital and spiritual life.

New opportunities will be added to this site, so we encourage you to FOLLOW us on X, Facebook, and Instagram for the latest updates and SUBSCRIBE to our Four Gifts of Love® YouTube channel.

Enjoy exploring this site and starting your journey as you learn about and follow the Four Gifts of Love® lifestyle.

Blessings,

Dr. Jennifer Harley Chalmers

 

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