Four Gifts of Love® Class

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The 7-lesson, Four Gifts of Love® Class is NOW available in an online format with the benefits of completing the sessions with flexibility or a facilitator-led format (via Zoom).

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What Is the Four Gifts of Love® Class?

It’s a FOUNDATION for helping couples create and sustain a lifestyle that results in ROMANTIC LOVE in marriage and PASSION for God.

Why TWO relationships?

Because we believe these two relationships IMPACT a person’s life the most!


Passion for God and romantic love in marriage are something we can create…it’s not a mystery; it's about a lifestyle.

It’s a symptom of:

  • A compatible and thoughtful relationship
  • Creating a lifestyle of care, protection, honesty, and time: the Four Gifts of Love®

Sample Video Session

The following is a video session (Session 4) from the 7-lesson Four Gifts of Love® Class (group, facilitator-led format) for you to sample. The online-format videos will have the same content but were adapted for one couple, not a group. (Note: all video sessions have a closed-caption option.)

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How do I JOIN a class?  2-Class formats are available: (* please see note below)

1. Online: Self-paced, online curriculum, with or without Registered FGL Class Facilitator couple (RCF) check-ins via Zoom.

2. Facilitator-Led: Group or private classes are available with sessions led by an RCF via Zoom.

What is NEEDed for the online Class?

  • The Four Gifts of Love® Class Online includes all the readings, quizzes, questionnaire links, and videos as an online class (7 lessons plus 4 "booster" assignments).
  • Commit to complete about 2-3 hours of self-study online homework for each lesson/week for individual and couple assignments.
  • Complete the Class and boosters within 3 months.
  • This format also has an option to include up to 11 consecutive check-ins (about 15 minutes) with an RCF after each weekly lesson or booster, plus encouragement emails. And no worries ... no private-couple information will be requested in the check-ins and correspondence with the RCF.

Want to try it out? We'd like to offer you 2 weeks to try Lesson One.

Simply click FREE 1-LESSON TRIAL!

What is NEEDed for the facilicator-led group or private Class?

  • The group and private Class have all the readings, assignments, and quizzes in the Four Gifts of Love® Participant’s Guide, requiring couples to purchase one print book per person or one eBook per person (or couple, if you prefer to share).
  • Commit to complete about 2-3 hours of self-study homework for each lesson/week for individual and couple assignments.
  • Complete the Class and boosters within 4 months.
  • This format includes up to 12 consecutive Class sessions (approximately 1- to 1.5-hours per session) with the RCF that uses the Four Gifts of Love® Class Facilitator’s Guide and presents the Four Gifts of Love® Class Companion Video, plus encouragement emails.
  • And no worries ... couples are not required to share private-couple information in the session.
  • The sessions with the RCF offers a helpful part of the learning process, because they provide encouragement, review of assignment/quiz answers, and concept reviews.

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*Please note:

  1. For all the options, your full willingness and ability to care, protect, be honest, and give time is NEEDed. This Class is marriage education and intended to help you learn and develop skills to create a Four Gifts of Love® lifestyle. It is not therapy or a replacement for therapy; thus, if you are currently experiencing untreated issues involving abuse, addiction, marital infidelity, and/or mental health, we respectfully and thoughtfully recommend that you first seek professional help to treat those issues as this course necessitates the full capacities of a husband and wife to care, protect, be honest, and give time to each other.
  2. The concepts and marriage philosophy used in this Class were originated by Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., and have been used by millions across the world for nearly half a century. Our empirical research and anecdotal experience suggest that this Class is an effective marriage education for heterosexual couples. The Class does not have efficacy data for use with couples beyond the bounds of our research, competency, and experience.
  3. If you do not adhere to the beliefs presented in the faith-based material, with a Christ-centered orientation, those assignments may be skipped and you can complete the assignments related only to your marriage relationship.