Time Will Tell, Understanding the Importance of Time for Sustaining Romantic Love




Time Will Tell: Understanding the Importance of Time in Sustaining Romantic Love


This five-lesson class is intended for couples who are new to Dr. Harley's concepts (Level One). Since this is an L1 class, it's recommended that each spouse reads the "Summary of Basic Concepts" before starting.

Each lesson will require about 30 minutes of reading and couple discussion.  It's recommended that couples complete a minimum of two lessons per week. 

The lesson content is as follows:

Lesson 1: The Policy of Undivided Attention

Lesson 2: The First Corollary to the Policy of Undivided Attention-Privacy

Lesson 3: The Second Corollary to the Policy of Undivided Attention-Objectives

Lesson 4: The Third Corollary to the Policy of Undivided Attention-Amount

Lesson 5: Scheduling Time to Fulfill the Policy of Undivided Attention


Participant’s Agreement 

The Four Gifts of Love® Online Institute is an educational program only and not intended as therapy or to replace therapy. 

As a participant, you understand that your experience in this Class, in part or in whole, may create new perceptions and a range of feelings that at times may include uncomfortable emotions. It is always an option for each individual to choose to participate or not to participate in the assignments based on one’s own comfort level. Clearly understand that it is always your choice as to participate. 

Your Class participation declares your agreement with the above statements. 

IMPORTANT NOTICE: If you are aware or become aware of current physical abuse and/or current infidelity in your relationship, we recommend that you first eliminate those issues before taking this class. For instances of current infidelity, we recommend going through the process explained in Surviving an Affair (Harley/Chalmers, Revell, 1998, 2013) to ensure that extraordinary precautions are being followed for no contact with the lover; and for current physical abuse, we recommend reading Dr. Harley's book, Love Busters, Revised and Expanded Edition (Revell, 1992, 1997, 2008, 2016) and, if needed, obtain professional help to ensure a zero tolerance for physical abuse before starting this course.