Four Gifts of Love® — Online Institute

1.)

Dishonesty creates incompatibility, because _____________.

a.) it makes solutions to problems hard to find ("It strangles compatibility")

b.) it keeps emotional needs from being met

c.) it makes a dishonest spouse more private and defensive

d.) all of the above

2.)

One way to show that you value your spouse's honesty when revealing a thoughtless act is to first say, ___________________, then identify ways to solve the problem together so thoughtless acts are revealed, forgiven, and corrected.

a.) "How could you do such a stupid thing?"

b.) "What were you thinking?"

c.) "Did you think about how this would hurt me?"

d.) "Thank you for being honest with me. I need for us to come up with a way to prevent this from happenening again."

3.)

When dishonesty is discovered, the hidden behavior usually causes less pain than the dishonesty itself, even when the hidden behavior is infidelity.

a.) true

b.) false

4.)

Radical honesty includes _____________.

a.) honesty about feelings and opinions

b.) honesty about events and activities of the past

c.) honesty about events and activities of the present

d.) honesty about plans for the future

e.) all of the above

5.)

Dr. Harley believes that anything short of radical honesty is dishonesty.

a.) true

b.) false

6.)

An annoying habit is an intentional behavior that causes Love Bank withdrawals.

a.) true

b.) false

7.)

While annoying habits can never be entirely eliminated, spouses can chip away at them by implementing a plan to eliminate the top three annoying habits. When those are eliminated, the next three most annoying habits are targeted for elimination.

a.) true

b.) false