Four Gifts of Love® — Online Institute

Dating the One You Married, Part 6:

Policy of Joint Agreement

FEB 01, 2018

Dr. Harley continues his series on dating after marriage.

Dating the One You Married, Part 7:

Dating Is Not Always a Good Idea

FEB 12, 2018

Is dating always a good idea? Most would answer "Yes." But Dr. Harley explains how sometimes it's not, as he writes about a couple who hate each other.

Dating the One You Married, Part 8:

Great Conversation Is Essential for Romantic Dating

FEB 18, 2018

What's needed for a great date? Flowers, music, romance, recreational activity? In Part 8, Dr. Harley explains what's essential for a great date.

Dating the One You Married, Part 9:

Becoming Favorite Recreational Companions

FEB 24, 2018

In Part 8, Dr. Harley talks about what's an essential part of a great date. Part 9 adds another essential part: Becoming each others favorite recreational companion.

Dating the One You Married, Part 10:

Putting It All Together

MAR 04, 2018

In Part 10, Dr. Harley helps summarize what dating in marriage is all about.

Dating the One You Married, Part 11:

Resolving Conflicts the Right Way

MAR 12, 2018

Dr. Harley reviews how to negotiate in marriage.

Dating the One You Married, Part 12:

Never in Love

MAY 14, 2018

What if spouses never felt romantic love for each other, even before marriage? How do you date a spouse with whom you never felt romantic love in the first place? In this article, Dr. Harley guides a couple to experience romantic love for each other for the first time.

Dating the One You Married, Part 13:

Learning the Skill of Affection

JUN 11, 2018

How does a person become an expert at being affectionate to a spouse when it doesn't come naturally or doesn't seem necessary? In this article, Dr. Harley explains how to become an expert, even when it doesn't "feel" right.

Dating the One You Married, Part 14A:

Overcoming Sexual Pain and Fear

JUN 24, 2018

The topic of creating a mutually thoughtful sexual relationship in marriage is not often discussed. Many think it should come naturally, but sadly for many, it doesn't. Dr. Harley addresses this issue and gives specific and candid answers to related questions.

Dating the One You Married, Part 14B:

Overcoming Sexual Aversion

JUN 26, 2018

Part 14B continues the topic of overcoming pain and fear about sex in marriage by addressing the topic of sexual aversion.

Dating the One You Married, Part 15:

Scheduling Dates for the First Time

OCT 16, 2018

Many may think they are dating. But their dates may not be making the most out of their time and effort. In this article, Dr. Harley explains how to schedule a date to make the most love unit deposits into the Love Bank.

Dating the One You Married, Part 16:

Working Different Shifts

NOV 06, 2018

Many couples work different shifts due to financial need, yet this lifestyle makes it difficult to find time together. Dr. Harley gives advice for those in this situation.