Four Gifts of Love® — Online Institute

Dating the One You Married, Part 18:

Careers that Prevent Romantic Dating

DEC 22, 2018

How can a spouse's career affect dating? Dr. Harley explains how some careers can make dating impossible, which makes a romantic relationship impossible.

Dating the One You Married, Part 19:

Fatigue

JAN 04, 2019

Fatigue is something most of us experience on a regular basis. But how do we find the energy to regularly date our spouse when our lifestyle creates a constant state of exhaustion? Dr. Harley offers help for the many spouses who struggle with this question.

Dating the One You Married, Part 20:

Childcare

JAN 28, 2019

One of the greatest obstacle to dating is finding adequate childcare. In this article, Dr. Harley discusses helpful solutions to this problem.

Dating the One You Married, Part 21:

The Birth of a First Child

OCT 29, 2019

"Children are a threat to romantic love in marriage." Is that statement true? It doesn't have to be. Dr. Harley gives advice for new parents on how to protect feelings of romantic love.

Dating the One You Married, Part 22:

Is Lovemaking Always Necessary on a Romantic Date?

DEC 05, 2019

The objective of dating your spouse is to meet four intimate emotional needs: affection, sexual fulfillment, intimate conversation, and recreational companionship. But some ask: "Is Lovemaking always necessary on a date?" Dr. Harley offers an answer to that question.

The Ice Cube that Changed My Life

MAY 09, 2018

Can an ice cube really change a person's life? And what does this have to do with marriage? Dr. Chalmers explains in this article.

How to Complain in Marriage

JAN 24, 2018

The word "complain" often has a negative connotation. However, a complaint is simply emotional honesty about being unhappy with something. Since emotional honesty is a necessity in marriage, complaining, without using Love Busters, is an important skill to learn and Dr. Harley will explain how.

Rules that Guide Good Habit Formation in Marriage

FEB 01, 2018

Dr. Harley explains how to make sure that the habits you form are "good" ones, or in other words, are making deposits and avoiding withdrawals.

Why Women Leave Men

JUN 20, 2018

What causes a wife to be compelled to leave her marriage, leave her husband? Dr. Harley gives insight into this question.